DC9stick
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- Nov 27, 2001
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My husband requested that I respond to your post (he is also the owner of this screen name). We think you are getting way too much negative feedback. Although I am not a pilot (my husband is)-I just retired from a 29 year career in the Federal Bureau of Prisons. That too, is a male-dominated field and I had to put up with either blatant or clandestine comments concerning my working at an all-male prison, or being pregnant in an all-male prison. After our son was born, it became a real issue finding reliable day-care with my husband being away a good deal of the time and my working irregular hours. I ran the gamut of day-care facilities, baby sitters and in home day-care operators. I can tell you I had better luck with the day-care facilities as individual baby sitters are not regulated in any way and even those home day-care operators, who are state regulated, are oftentimes suspect. When I was flying on the BOP Air-Lift, my husband and I seldom saw each other and our son was shuffled from our care to two different day-care centers. I admit that during that period of time, I felt guilty, but we had to do what we had to do and made up for it when we had our son with us by making him the center of our attention. Whenever you use someone else to care for your children, you must interview them carefully, inspect the premises, and check references. You have to work diligently to ensure your children get the best care possible and then check up on the operators periodically. Also, using a day-care facility usually means that proprietors must conform to state regulations, to include inspections in nutrition, education of their workers, and safety/sanitation. Due to our diligence in managing our schedules, spending quality time with our son, and being ever watchful of care-givers, our 20 year old son has turned out just fine, thank you. He attends a top-rated university, has never been in trouble, and is very responsible. His father and I are looking forward to our son receiving a commission to the Air Force upon his graduation. All in all, we agree that the path we took, was the right one. Good luck.